一块石头的命运

一块石头的命运

一块石头的命运

你相信命中注定吗?

在我 拆房子” 的那期视频,曾留下关于一块石头的悬念。今天,我想好好讲讲这个故事。那座待拆的老房子门前,有块毫不起眼的石头,粗糙破旧地立在水泥墩上。前租客 Mary 特意叮嘱我要保护好它,还发邮件告诉我这是本地艺术家 Gwen Boyle 的作品。当时的我并未在意,甚至没注意到它何时不见了踪影。

市政树木检查前一天,检验官来电提醒:若有烟囱需人工拆除,破损窗户也要封好。我想起确实有两扇破窗需要处理,便计划接儿子放学后顺道完成。后院有现成木板,这本该是件简单的事。

可那天下午,房子前没有停车位。望着需要来回搬运的工具,再看看不善动手的儿子,我竟临时改变主意:”算了,回家吧。”儿子脸上闪过一丝困惑。回家小憩后,我喝着咖啡,检查工具,决定独自返回。

当我的车再次停到房前时,一幕奇妙的场景映入眼帘:一个遛狗人正弯腰捡起什么,手里还提着个鼓鼓的袋子。下车环顾四周,我猛然发现那块石头不见了!那人没走多远,袋子看起来沉甸甸的。我追上去问道:”Excuse Me, did you take a stone there?”,当我说明石头的来历,他沉默片刻,只说了句 “I am sorry” 便物归原主。

回家清洗后,这块 ”破石头” 竟显出玉石般的光泽。朋友打趣说能做好几副手镯,但我感慨的远非其价值——若我早到或晚到一分钟,它可能就永远消失了。后来 Mary 听到这个结局时欣喜不已。

这让我想起儿子大学申请的事。去年他还说绝不去”No life, so depressing” 的滑铁卢大学,今年却对不太经意申请到的滑铁卢工程专业情有独钟,放弃了多个名校 Offer。这种转变,不也像冥冥中的安排吗?

人生就是如此奇妙。昨天联系到 23 年未见的老同事,他说视频里演奏交响乐的儿子,神情与我初入职场时如出一辙。时光飞逝,那个意气风发的少年已成中年,很快被人唤作”大爷”恐怕也不足为奇。

今天正值中国高考,看到放榜视频时我眼眶湿润。分数固然重要,但唯有保持善良、真诚与敬畏之心,才能在爱恨交织、贪惧并存的人生迷途中守住本真。虽然,我越来越相信: 这一切,或许都是命中注定。

Finally Here – Balancing Ambition with Reality

Finally Here – Balancing Ambition with Reality

Finally Here – Balancing Ambition with Reality

You can’t have everything in life, and architectural design is no exception. Design is a journey of defining your wish list and making compromises along the way.

Starting with the initial bubble diagrams in August, this design has evolved significantly(total 8 versions ). Vancouver’s Zoning Bylaws have changed over time, opening up multiple possibilities for designers and homeowners, from single-family homes with double garages or laneway houses to duplexes and multi-unit options. My initial concept was a Net Zero single-family house, which offered a 19% density bonus in floor area as an incentive. To pursue this goal, I became a member of HAVAN and completed the two-day Net Zero Course to qualify for the net-zero registration.

However, I decided to forgo the net-zero pathway in this project due to the extended permit process, which would add an estimated six months. With my children graduating from high school and university next year, timing is essential. Net Zero home remains a serious consideration for future projects, though.

The current design features a main house and a two-bedroom laneway house, totaling approximately 3,300 square feet. I’ll share more details and styles later.